Adjective
1. showing regard for others in manners, speech, behavior, etc.
2. marked by refinement in taste and manners;
"cultivated speech""cultured Bostonians""cultured tastes""a genteel old lady""polite society"3. not rude; marked by satisfactory (or especially minimal) adherence to social usages and sufficient but not noteworthy consideration for others;
"even if he didn't like them he should have been civil"- W.S. Maugham